>>15754211The difference between act and reality regarding Beatani is hard to tell. She seems to be almost always in-character and has admitted to some things being an act on top of lying about others.
Japanese vtubers or people in general are more strict to their internet personas than the western person who is always breaking character or mixing their personal life and opinions with it. The best thing you can do is not expect her to be clear and honest all the time and just enjoy it as entertainment. Remember that there is a whole lot of things none of the dads know and she won't even think of mentioning because we have nothing to do with it.
