>>34305261there might be a way, but I think it's almost impossible to boost someone else's confidence. It really comes from inside, and usually takes many many successful social interactions to reroute the neural pathways that make you who you are right now into a more confident version of you. I think focusing too much on trying to change might just build up pressure and anxiety around it, and the best way is little by little, slowly by slowly. I really think kiki is a much more confident rab already than she was when I started watching. She used to be very susceptible to anonymous bullying and think all her fans were turning on her because of one troll. She still feels bad when people are being mean on purpose, everyone does, but it seems like she's gotten a lot better and believing in herself enough to know that it's not her fault, it's the fault of one person being mean.
She's also been very gracious and strong when she talks about different people's different levels and types of devotion. She knows not everyone is the ideal she has in her head, and accepts the love they're able to give her in the ways they can give it, as long as they accept her boundaries and limits and expectations too. It's like a big jigsaw puzzle and just slowly and carefully and kindly trying to figure out where all the pieces fit.
