>>81421779One thing I really wish I'd done more is told her how much of her efforts I noticed. I saw the morning clip she did and the one where she wrote 'I love u' on paper and I could tell she was really trying. The only reason I didn't say anything was because I felt like it was in response to past criticisms and I didn't want to validate them. Her tweet haunts me. I can hear her pain and despair in there. How can you praise someone all the time, and not make it sound cheap even you mean every single second and word?