>>34985487masterpiece, best quality, ((sitting on lap)), (imminent kiss), (yuri),((face-to-face)), ((amane kanata, hololive, white hair, short hair, flat chest, blue eyes, angel)), ((tokoyami towa, hololive, purple hair, long hair, twintails, devil, green eyes, (medium breasts), blush)), (2girls), (lingerie), ((looking at another)), ((((seductive smile))))
excludes are the usual, plus (((kissing))), (((licking finger))), (((licking another's face)))
I originally wanted kissing but 80% of the time tongues are involved with anything it becomes sort of horrific. So instead I went with the next best option and excluded a few tags that I thought might help keep their mouths shut.
I should also add another thing I've been doing, which is using the script section to try out a bunch of different CFG Scale and samplers at a time. (pic related). Adds a little more variety than just creating a batch of 20 of the same settings and is especially nice if you still aren't sure what options you like the best. I don't remember which combination in particular I got that pic from.