>>105555776NTR is disgusting because of what it represents to the male psyche. You are placing yourself in a submissive position and begging for self-harm. It is the act of being abused that is getting you off. This directly translate to your mindset in other aspects of life.
Loli is different in that it is about wanting a specific ideal form. It can be about the form, the idea of purity or innocence, or any number of things. This doesn't necessarily translate into real desire because it's a fictional creation.