>>87307115I like the praise but good boy is too much, one said "youre such a big strong man" the other day and it started ringing bells for me
>>87307208Maybe, I think its also the Asian family tiger mom/non praising father type of thing, my parents had standards for me but they werent terribly high, and I achieved them mostly
The only thing I could say is my father never really praised me but he also didnt have much to say I was doing wrong while he was still alive. I realized shortly after he died that just meant I was meeting his expectations and he was proud of me for that.
>>87307764Real
