>>55982055You are miserable so you assume everyone else must also be miserable like you are. I've made my peace with that side of me as much as I can and it was not easy, and it's an ongoing thing, but I'll always encourage others to do the same.
GFE/BFE is not healthy or normal. The people who watch it are (mostly) not healthy or normal. Being a Gosling for a chuuba, or anyone really, is not healthy or normal. Even if you never have a schizo moment or have fairly positive intentions, it's always agony, and it isn't reality.
If you are a Gosling, you need to wake the fuck up and smell the coffee. It's a horrible, desperate thing, and I know that very well.
I've made a lot of improvements since then and am happier. Perfectly happy? No of course not. But I'm working on it, and I hope others do too.
