>>84404703I don't really know gumpai enough to make major serious judgment on her character but I can definitely tell she has BPD and generally my experience with BPD people taught me that I should leave them alone to do their own thing, and this consequently means I shouldn't trust them with any commitments, promises and other things that need a degree of trust because the swing can happen at any moment whether it's because someone told them something weird or they had one bad bout of paranoia, and they decided to take immediate explosive action. Sometimes the swing will happen and they'll hide it or justify it like any other manipulative person would but that doesn't make them malicious like some kind of sociopath, but seeing these swings happen in real time can be a headache for someone that doesn't have the time or patience to spare for them when the average joe is not going to cause these headaches for you. At some point, it's just not worth the trouble of trying to keep up with them.
It'll look like they're crazy from the outside, but knowing it's BPD doesn't make it any easier to interact with them or trust them on any level. I can also believe that gumpai herself thinks she's not crazy, she's just doing what feels natural for her to do and it's obvious that she's a very considerate person. I just feel like trying to be friends with her is going to be a pain in the ass unless I'm some sort of omega simp that'll gleefully validate all her weird swings and ideas, because that's the only type of person I've seen become long-term friends with BPD people, and these people tend to make these swing episodes worse
