>>54209251I don't think you know that Shondo is very similar in this way. She projects the abuse because she thinks that's all she deserves/the only way she can keep people from leaving her, and it's the closest thing to sexual release she experiences.
Shondo realistically needs a man that won't lay a finger on her, will just stay by her side platonically, hug her when she needs affection once every few months, and protect her from anyone that tries to harm her (including herself)
The bad Shondophrenics are the ones giving her the abuse she thinks she needs to receive.