>>84603675I wasn't going to respond but it's slow enough and I don't think you know why those guys were being mean to you, and I wanna mention e-celebs and dealing with negging people because it's a good moral for aspiring vtubers
To me, it's clear why two people would call you obnoxious, and to get your head out of your ass. It's because your post came off as egotistical, or arrogant. They could've been nicer about how they worded it, but it could be true
>I'm calling their bluffComes off egotistical (to some people) in the first sentence. Even if it isn't meant that way, it isn't going to endear people to you
>It should be very easy to offer proofToo arrogant for most people
Offering proof may or may not be easy, but just because something is easy to do doesn’t mean it must be done necessarily. In fact, you could argue against it when someone is specifically demanding you do something
It's not just stubbornness or spite, since, in creative pursuits and e-celebrity drama circles, it's often advised not to do something just because it's demanded of you, or because your absence is criticized
People let demands be made of them, turning themselves into 'marks' or losing some kind of creative control. Audiences try to bully people into conflict by criticizing them for showing favouritism or selectivism, in the hope they interact with something they otherwise aren't engaged with or interested in
Internet Aristocrat (first ever western VTuber btw) wouldn't exactly have had such a flawless record of coming out clean, in what should've been a very dramatic career, if he didn't disregard popular demands and speculation against his integrity and character (in fact it takes a lot of integrity to engage what you want). Caving in these kinds of contexts is literally a human flaw of "the bruised ego" and a trapping of lolcowdom
Anyways, like I said, he simply doesn't have to just because it's easy or not, and saying it seems arrogant, (in fact, saying it is always literally just a play on someone's insecurity), but the bruised ego idea is what really makes it arrogant
You can't ever expect people to act, when you make demands of them which push them away. If someone came up to you, dismissed you out of hand immediately, was totally hostile from the outset, and then started making demands instead of just politely or conversationally asking for an example like a normal person, (he's literally you) I doubt you would want to do much of anything to prove yourself, perhaps just to spite them, or perhaps, because they are just rightfully overlooking hostility like they should
I doubt you have the heart to do something as simple as admit that even if you're in the right and this was important enough to argue about, (as opposed to just accepting he was unlucky, or had a brutally honest audience), that being so rude was the wrong way to go about getting anything from others. The bruising of an ego does strange things sadly since we're only human
Really wish you the learn to be nice though. I'm only trying to help, and I wouldn't type so much if I didn't care, I promise on dog no cat
