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Whats up Nerissa and everyone. Nerissa it was upsetting to see you post that low confidence post, the crying one with tomatoes. Stop it. No low self confidence or low self esteem. I cant force anyone to have high self esteem or self confidence since it has to come from within, but I can share where mine comes from maybe it will help you
>love
I love being me, I love who I am, and who God made me to be. If I dont make out with myself in the mirror in the morning then who will? Thats the mentality I carry.
>yourself
I give the advice to "just be yourself" which is honestly the best advice. I dont care what others think about me and you shouldnt care what others think about you either (except your family). Some of my interests perhaps a little feminine (no theyre not), but I dont care. I like tea parties, I eat brunch everyday, if I OMAD its my only meal I love brunch, I read books, and my political views you already know those. It's who I am and if others dont like me for my interests or beliefs its okay. I dont need to be liked. And to be honest no one cares or minds anyway, not even women.
>tea parties
This which is perhaps my most feminine interest, you would think this would turn women off, or dislike me. But nah, ive never experienced that. I think its because I dont care about the judgement of others, I like them so why would I be ashamed of it? I like the aesthetic, the chill mellow atmosphere, and the tea party food. I have enough masculine hobbies to offset tea parties anyway.
>brunch
Also my favorite type of tea party is a brunch tea party. Something about brunch foods for tea party, its so good.
>you
Anyway thats my mentality, I dont care for the judgement of others so I'm free to be who I am, if people dislike me for it, so be it, thats on them. You dont need to be aer*th, you're cool how you are, you just need to realize it. Good job Nerissa! Yeah you!
