>>73526892Dating is pure luck desu. You can increase the chances of meeting someone but at the end of the day it's still mostly based on luck. Will you meet someone, will she want to go on a date with you, will both of you like each other, will she be normal (as in not some BPD chick or some shit), etc. The people who say dating is easy have been lucky and/or haven't experienced a fall out yet. It's the same shit with jobs. I had a great job for 5 years where I worked around 20h a week from home for above average pay until the company boss went mental and we all left the company. Should I have gone around and mocked others for complaining about their jobs and saying how easy it is to get one while I worked there? Fuck no.
I also went on my first date when I was 26, everything seemed fine for the first couple of dates, then it all went downhill fast with her turning out to be a manipulative bitch that had actual mental problems. Tried talking to a few other women after that but they all seemed to either have 0 interests or ghost me, so I just gave up. Meanwhile my friend who has women coming at him from left and right, messaging him non-stop, refuses to date them. Says it's too much of a hassle and that most women are pretty horrible.
