>>43035277I'm gonna be really, really, really, really, real with you for a second, Pomie.
This attitude is how you ended up where you are today.
That paranoid, controlling, snoopy, grandstanding pettiness. It turns people off you. It makes you come across as overbearing.
It makes people believe you're dangerous because of the way you look and act.
You NEED to drop this. you NEED to re-evaluate. You NEED to take a step back and reflect on how much or how little your feminine gossip hurts and hinders.
You're literally turning into a HoA glowie.