>>76682819Can't hear you over my clownfu preferring plump posteriors no matter the sex. But fr, it's more important to follow the spirit of the law (lifting and training for health and self defense, WHR being a better measure of health) rather than the literal definition (aiming for an arbitrary number on the outdated BMI scale, being skinny for women). It's more important to choose a form you're more comfortable with (within reason) and let natural confidence take over than let the stress of a standard bog you down for something you don't enjoy. Even bodybuilders aren't recommended to go below 12% bf for more than a few months at a time.
Sure, there's Stacie's like Tenma that hate fat guys, but not everyone's Tenma, and it's better to pursue intrinsic value than extrinsic motivation from a dating pool more fickle than the weather. Besides, if you're her personality type, well groomed, have a decent wallet, and at least have the potential to fit her body type, she'll eventually clue you in on her preferences.