>>36336229My brother, a relationship based on financial incentives and nothing else is a hollow and unfulfilling one.
Without common ground, without shared, mutual interests or ideology, passions or commonalities, or at the very least mutual love, you are simply sending money to a woman who does not love you, will never love you, and will be unable to provide the respect a human being should strive for.
Money is not as important as love, and I don't mean love as in posting "Vera love!" and then a cute picture, I mean honest, non-self focused affection for another person.
I worry sometimes that people online have a diluted sense of emotional understanding. Do not let yourself be like them. Find someone who loves you as you love them, cherish their companionship, work together on mutual passions and interests. Become self-reliant, and reliable for the people in your life. Become someone worth loving.
Do not barter for a woman's heart with a purse full of silver.