>>80178170> will do anything to cater to her every wish even if it's at the expense of their own joy or themselves. Like a sense of, "it doesn't matter if I'm not having fun, as long as she is, that's fine" which is pretty unhealthy which like what >>80176682 said, is usually something that stems from some form of trauma, whether it's unfulfilled unrequited love from a young age or emotional abuse from a past partner, etc.Is that... not normal? Icey matters more than we do. Her dreams are the priority but it's nice when she casts her eye around and actually 'sees' us y'no? It's the best feeling in the world.