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I've been in enough long distance relationships to know that once you start making concessions, it's a slippery slope.
Shondo hangs out with us on streams and watchalongs because that is just what she likes doing with her friends or partners. For us, it's a romantic and friendship and for Nina it's a platonic component.
But Nina is gaining access to things we likely won't have ourselves despite being her husbands.
Personally, I don't see how you can platonically sleep in the same bed as someone and it's not something I'm okay with her doing. Same with cuddling or sensual touching or kissing.
This puts the concessions on us to give and that is not going to end well (trust me, it never does), and it is technically up to Shondo and Nina to be making them.
Mind you, I don't think Shondo is the type of girl you worry about this kind of thing but I'm still preparing for surprises.