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I really don't mean this in a completely negative way because I thought, for the most part, Bae was great and helpful in the collab last night. That said:
I don't understand how a person who's so gung-ho about Open VC like Bae is can't actually function like a normal person in one. She keeps getting (understandably) ignored and that's mostly because half the time she even says anything she's thinking out loud. And maybe if she was just mumbling to herself, that'd be one thing, but she actually speaks at a normal volume when she does. At some point, people like that, tend to get tuned out because why pay them any mind when chances are they're just going to talk to themselves again?
It doesn't help that while she's talking to herself, she completely misses the conversation beats and things have to be repeated or explained to her because she's also completely fucking ignorant of the world. She also doesn't seem to know how to drop something and would rather push and push and push a joke until she gets what she wants which comes off awfully.
Either way it's her talking to herself, or she goes ahead and decides to talk to her chat, which isn't inherently wrong, but the way she goes about it is. Gura did it, Fauna did it, Ame did it, but when they do it's either to get an answer to a question, in which they relay that by saying "yeah chat said -" or, in the same vein, when something catches their eye, and they basically say the same thing explaining what they saw by specifically say it's from chat. Bae, however, decides she's just going to spend a full minute loudly asking the same question over and over again to chat which completely leaves the girls out of it causing her to get ignored.
Quite literally the only time I actually understood Bae's frustration with getting annoyed was when she was yelling out "I BROUGHT GIFTS" because that clearly wasn't something she was saying to all of them. But even that could've been avoided if she would actually call people by name. Like whoever was closest to her she could just say "hey Kronii/Fauna/Gura/Ame, I got you something."
Like there actually seems to be a need for a dedicated person in these collabs to actually listen and parse out everything Bae is saying to keep her included at this rate. But it also goes the other way that she really does need to pay attention to what everyone else is saying and stop being so hyperfocused on what she's doing that she sometimes comes off as disruptive. Even if there was dead air, which there wasn't, she could literally afk and still be content because that's what the Open VC is even for. It allows you to actually be lazy because the content gets made with or without your input.
Anyway sorry about this I'm running on fumes and I needed to get this out of my head so I can nap peacefully. You can "didn't read lol" me now.
