>>45745010You flatter me! A lot of what I believe is wisdom from seeing what's worked best for the better adjusted around me through empirical observation, mixed in with a romantic heart. Long marriages from family and family friends where you see the married couple learn to work through each other's flaws, and make each other better people, and parents as a result. That doesn't mean there aren't fights or disagreements, I think that those are natural occurrences because both people care, but haven't found out how in the moment to resolve their feelings. What matters is in the end you both try to learn each other's perspectives. The strong man can take a bit of abuse in order to allow their woman to vent their emotions, as long as it is frontward facing.