>>25565875There's nothing toxic about having a "leader", since it's just the lore or original theme they had when they debuted. No one is upset when it isn't followed to a T.
The girls don't take it seriously, the purported leaders always go "nooo I'm not", but it's just a friendly part of the kayfabe, so to speak.
People who start throwing around numbers or measuring relationships when it's mentioned drag it down, and you can just ignore them.