>>5442042Anon... again, you have no reason to believe my claims but here I go again before finally fucking off to cook:
I was born in 1986 and experienced a total war as a child. As in, not somewhere far away but as in "the village right next to mine was a place of genocide" kind of thing. And after the war was over things got worse for me on a personal basis, and continued to be an unending torrent of misery, poverty and extensive humiliation up until just a few years ago.
There's something I can't put into words, and others can't either. But essentially people who have experienced extreme hardship will and do recognize each other at a mere glance, a word, a look, even if they never met before or after. And my every instinct, gut feeling, my sympathy, and my understanding goes out to Gura. Because I see it in her. I don't know what happened to her, but she has experienced some form of extreme pain in childhood. Almost certainly first and foremost emotionally. But it shattered her. This cannot be hidden, cannot be obscured.
Ergo, my utmost admiration, respect and love for her. She picked up her own pieces and put them back together. I have done the same, but I truly believe her accomplishment is greater and that she has done a better job. I feel humbled and inspired because of her. Yes, my extensive trauma includes everything from parental neglect to evil stepmothers that break little fingers. I know pain.
I also hope you have enough common sense not to pester her with retarded questions or SC's. This isn't the kind of thing you casually ask other people about or mention it. That would be vile.