Recommendation:
I think it was an anon here who shared this JP ASMR vtuber but I only just got around to checking him out today. His stream today one of the most arousing, flustering experiences I've had in a while. It's not an RP ASMR; I'd say about 80% of it is standard ASMR ear stuff. But he does a fair amount of kissing and I think a bit of licking (which I usually don't like at) but I enjoyed it because it seemed to be a less exaggerated than, say, when Vox does wet ear kissing (no offense intended, just preference). But more than that, his VOICE. He controls his voice so well and it gets breathy and shaky at times and it's just very, very good. Link to today's stream:
https://youtu.be/1Zon5Pz3zwY He does do straight up NSFW ASMR and has a separate channel devoted solely to ear-licking ASMR, so the influence is there, but what I'm raving about his his "sleep ASMR" category in particular.
Note: my absolute favourite ASMR is from Masaru Suzuki (niji JP shota) and it is zero NSFW elements, and Haru is the first male vtuber who has come close to what I consider to be that top tier ear trigger pacing and audio quality. So while I found Haru's ASMR surprisingly hot, the primary appeal is that classic ASMR stuff. Male vtubers doing standard ASMR seem to be quite rare compared to RP or VA style ASMRs.
Sorry for the essay, I've been listening to a LOT of ASMR vtubers and streamers trying to find something I enjoyed as much as Masaru's so this is really exciting for me. 