>>6451815The two extremes are equally bad.
Relying on a parasocial relationship as your only appeal? Absolutely disgusting. I don't believe for a second that you actually care about my struggles as a man. Or that I'll ever be balls deep in you. Or that I'd want to be. And if yiur personality isn't entertaining then the dumpster will be your new home.
Parading around and having fun with other guys while I watch on in silence? If you don't even do niche boomer karaoke, then you're going straight into the incinerator for your crimes against cucks.
Just be smart, funny and entertaining. Which, to be fair, is asking a lot from women.