If you are in love with a streamer, for your own mental health, leave the hobby once males arrive
The truth is most streamers secretly hate their gosling audience and they will go out of their way to hurt you.
This has been the experience in /nijiEn/, in /vsj+/ and even in /wvt/.
You will think things won't change, that it can't be that bad. Nothing further from the truth.
The audience has immense power over the streamer, in a sense, they are their real bosses. As with every job, vtubers grow to hate their bosses. They will hurt them if they can.
You will be hurt, but you won't leave. This will teach them that they can keep hurting you and nothing will change.
It will take months before you finally give up, and by then it will be too late: her core audience will be replaced by shippers who will celebrate your demise. In time she will grow to hate that audience even more than she ever hated you, but that won't matter anymore.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-YofH18BXm4You think you will be able to run to smaller companies or to indies, but once Hololive normalizes breaking the gender barrier you will have no where to run in the west.
If you decide to persist, I recommend you go back to doing your Japanese reps right now. You will need those fresh when the inevitable happens. The cycle will begin anew. Time to return to /jp/
