>>29299190I think you're over-estimating how much crying some time weighs in comparison to content that anon seems to unironically love. I get that it's not "healthy" by this imaginative measuring stick you use, but ultimately who are we to judge others, when at the same time I think it's unarguable that majority of the things that go down in this board and the heads of anons are considered far from nominal by wider populace at large. It's completely okay to feel occasionally sad that your oshi is unreachable. It's up to anon himself to figure out when the line between healthy interest and obsession is crossed. If he isn't in a mental place where he can figure this out by himself, then you're not going to reach him with words anyway, so your self-help tips serve no purpose at all.