>>57395726i mean it's kinda similar to friends with benefits.
The person I'm with is ace which is how I learned about it, and I found that it's a good way to explain our current relationship. It's mostly platonic, but we still have some desires of being intimate and are comfortable with doing it with each other. Unlike a real romantic relationship there's no pressure and we can dictate the pace or how far we go with no hurt feelings. If she or I end up with another person that's cool as well (though we aren't really interested in other people and just so happened to become that close)