>>59369721Political viewpoints are a stupid thing for marriage purposes. If you were to go for marriage I assume you would have already been dating, and if I was dating my oshi I’d make my political leanings clear but also keep my mind open for discussion and debate. The main thing is I love history so I can contextualize the faults and failings of various tried ideologies, cultural and economic systems and show them examples of why they would or wouldn’t work, and what good aspects can be drawn from them. I would also put out the roles of people of various statuses at the time to contextualize what living under such a system would be like for a man or a woman. Most of all I’d make it clear I wouldn’t let personal ideals come between love, though, because everyone has a different picture of a perfect world and no one is good enough on Earth to realize it, especially not alone, and especially not as people just trying to make it through life.
>>59369839Hmmm, that is a good point. I’ll swap to Maririn, then. I will do a lot of things for my lover but I won’t stop being who I am as a whole. Me as a person is the sum of my experiences, learning from my mistakes, and I’m willing to work on or change aspects that are destructive but I’ll not become a doormat.
