>>94204532If you meet a woman like my ex there are factors you have to consider. My ex was a young virgin stress addicted school teacher with a proactive and driven personality and she hated party boys and was resistant to even try a dating site at first. Part of it was me charming her and just using my NEET free time to hang out with her every day, every single day. I was around for her for fucking everything, the good and bad and was basically acting as an amateur therapist for her. I was a few years older than her too and maybe a bit of an empathetic type (I'm a softy) so I didn't mind.
Being the type of woman she was she took it on herself to fly me out to her after two years of long distance.
Bit hard to find women like that these days and maybe she thought "I can fix him" or maybe it was because I'm a white dude. I dunno, the stars aligned or something. I got super lucky but I took it for granted and got too comfortable too.
If any of you boys wind up in that position like I did remember to fight for it, don't get lazy and for Gods sake get a fucking job. Any job, just make sure you can sustain yourself. If she loves you she won't care how you make your money or how rich you are as long as you're your own man.