>>29838199Because women can easily get into relationships, men cannot. Every man understands the struggle of being single and lonely; women, on the other hand, do not because social grace comes more naturally to them by birth and societal customs. When women use the struggles of bachelorhood as a joke, it comes off as mean and spiteful because they use it to show dominance and power, but when men use it with each other in banter, it's a show of solidarity and mutual struggle.