>>51393665This the definition of mucho texto, but I did actually read it, and no, Shondo is not my wife. I definitely do not care about her nearly as much as it seems you do.
Loneliness/lack of IRL connection is already a widespread crisis that will get disastrous very soon. Most of us in the vtuber sphere are part of it. We don't know how to help Shondo out of it any more than we know how to help ourselves out of it.
Also, you don't know whether she has a boyfriend or not and you can't know. She used to have one and she can get one any time she wants to. I don't think you need to worry so much about her.
It truly just is not our place to tell her how to live especially those of us who are in the same boat.