>>66778685Ultimately, if you are worried about being a groomer, worry not, you are not a groomer. Groomers know exactly what they are doing and why.
Groomers themselves will tell you it is a self steem issue: they cant a date the regular way, either because of their appearance or social status, and have to commit to underhanded tactics. Most of them feel terribly guilty too, they know its wrong, and they will often try to blame women for their own actitude or "the system"
Everyone wants to be loved by who they are, groomers know no one will, and so, they gaslight.
If you are worried about not being seen as a groomer by a chuuba dont worry, she already thinks of you as groomer by default anyway, you watch small indies.
The only thing you can do is not make her or the rest of the viewers hate you, cause in the first case you get twitteredlonger and in the second case you get schizoed.
