>>7558871It's better to realize that because we're getting our entertainment from someone else, we're mentally weaker for it. I use my oshis to motivate myself to get a menhera gf of my own, and to improve myself. If I settle with the parasocial relationship, when the passing of time comes and my oshi isn't there to support me, I'm painting my ceiling red.
There is strength in realizing and addressing your flaws, but to ignore them is lunacy.
Also OP here's more motivation for your schizophrenic self confidence