>>24359345A cuckold is someone whose significant other is having an affair. Those kinds of luxiemsisters simply don't see their oshi as their significant other. (Though some Luxiemsisters are female yumejo unicorns.)
For example, you'd probably root for your son if he was interested in a girl. Or if you're a male fan cheering your oshi on, maybe you see them as a bro and want to support them. The only real way you'd feel like a cuckold is if you think, even unconsciously, that your oshi is a (potential) romantic partner ending up with someone else.
Personally I hope that my oshi finds someone for him who can make him feel more confident and less harsh on himself. He deserves the world.