>>68325983You are asking a bunch of people who are resentful they never got attention in the dating pool, or people who had bad experiences and gave up after that. Or who are in a relationship they hate because they are more afraid of being alone.
I love my wife and meeting her has been the best thing that have happened to me. We've been married for a decade now and things are still going strong, it's all about making it work, don't give up and a bit of luck.
Do not ever let the crabs in the bucket drag you down. There is someone for you if you look for it and work and learn shit is not like in the movies or fiction, and learn where and when to compromise.