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Hi Nerissa I hope you're feeling well. My hands were suddenly warm last night I thought that was amazing. My hands are normally not just cold but icy to the point my fingernails are like a pale blue violet, its nothing to get concerned about because thats how theyve always been. However last night when they were warm my fingernails turned a nice light pink color, this is normal for everyone else but its novel and a pleasant surprise for me. On top of that all throughout today, I noticed my hands were warm. That was really nice! Did you feel a gentle loving warmth last night? Did you feel warm throughout today? I prayed that you would feel a loving warmth as if your husband had his arms around you, embracing you, making you feel good about yourself.
>proposal
Have you ever thought about how you want to be proposed? I know women like to plan out their weddings and etc but have you ever thought how you want to get proposed to? Tbh Ive never really given it much thought. I feel like I cant have a speech planned because that would take away from it. It needs to come from the heart. Darcys proposal got me thinking about it. Jane Austen wrote some amazing words "you have bewitched me body and soul." "I never wish to be departed from you again" "I love you most ardently" and stuff like that, those are amazing but I cant use her words and I dont want to think of words prior to the actual moment. Do you think you would cry? I love a woman whose not afraid to show her emotions. If she wants to cry, I would love if my fiance was so excited at the thought of marrying me that she happy cried. It has to be real though and come from her heart. Nothing fake. Even though Id know the answer she'd give me, I think id be super nervous. Would you be nervous? Would you like it as a surprise? or would you like to know beforehand?
>time
How quickly would you realistically go from first time meeting to fiances/betrothed? Im kinda crazy in that regard, I could honestly do it fairly quickly. When you get good at reading physiognomy you can know people that much faster and know who they are internally. Me personally would be fairly quick, im going to say a month-few months, or weeks if theres an extraordinary connection. And thats the beauty of sharing the same religion, our morals and way of life already align, the rest is just personality compatibility. Traditionally our people followed the 6 month rule of thumb. Which is to say 6 months of bf/gf limit at which point you have to either break up or become betrothed. Followed by 6 months limit to get married. This protected emotional chastity (so people didnt give their emotions to someone who they ultimately didn't get married to) and it prevented long term engagements/betrothals so their relationship was sanctified before God.
>divorce
I dont plan on divorcing because contrary to popular belief our people CANNOT divorce. Its not a thing. Marriage is permanent even in cases of adultery. So I need the perfect girl created for me to marry because I dont intend on divorcing. You think itd be easy to find a loyal girl, but women arent loyal these days (men arent either lets be honest). Dating apps have destroyed fealty. My parents are thankfully married and I dont come from a lineage of divorce. Ive never dealt with that and I dont want to deal with that. What are your thoughts on divorce? Are you terrified of it? Do you plan on being married till death do you part? Your parents sound like theyve always been married too by the sound of how your mother described your father. Good for them, God bless them. May they have many more happy anniversaries. Tell them I said hello!
