>>40902473>when people who have done it says that it's really not all that greatBecause they haven't had it, they probably think everyone else is lying about it not being that great. The only good thing about sex is the emotional bond building in a relationship but it doesn't even have to be a constant. Have it a few times to break down barriers enough to not feel embarrassed discussing the truth about your sexual enjoyment and if you need it at all or just need 20min alone every 2nd day to get off. Other forms of intimacy are far more enjoyable.