>>81816716nta but yes!
I'm not even a huge social game player but XIV's social aspects have become my favorite parts of the game. I'm gonna disagree with the other poster and say that there's a pretty large group of players who are openly women especially since we have a surprising amount of comfy game (e.g animal crossing and stardew) refugees, and the playerbase skews a little older so girls have a slightly more normal time than in some multiplayer games.
come play on aether when maintenance is over, we'd be happy to have you!