>>108249938I still remember the first time someone drew fanart of me and I can’t even begin to describe the feeling of knowing that someone likes you enough to draw a fanart of you. All I can say is I danced out of happiness and its one of the fondest memories I have as a chuuba. I understand how lonely it feels when you’re the only one talking or making clips but fwiw there’s a good chance the boy will treasure that forever
>unfortunately men feel like they can get away with just having a cute model.That and they probably don’t have a good framework of what moving forward as a cute boy, if they even know there are female fans of Vtubing at all. Also their own mind/insecurities probably get in their own way too. I wasn’t able to properly thank the lady who made the fanart beyond some pr worded retweet because of severe anxiety and I don’t really know how to interact properly with fans. As a boychuuba I already assume everything I say can and will be used against me so I lowkey see talking with a lot of fans and mutuals as potential threats lmfao.
Men are just like, really really bad at intuitively understanding what women actually want and reading between the lines so that leaves many of us feeling pretty lost when it comes to learning what would actually make us appealing and building a fanbase. Which is why places like /here/ are so important, somewhere that women can actually feel comfortable enough to say what they think.
