>>109747788based provider instincts
>>109747857the thing is, and it sucks but it's just true. at some point there are trade offs between career and family. unless a career is clearly firing off like a rocket to the moon by 30, it is sort of obvious who is best equipped to handle small milk drinking children.
the time to dream doesnt last very long. she got lucky and actually got to live it, which is more than most can say.
now the question becomes, how do I find a way to have a family without needing a daycare worker to raise my own children for me or becoming financially dependent on parents and all the shit that brings.
those are the questions that you'll be most concerned with having answered when you're on your death bed. those are the questions that need to be answered before it is too late to ever answer them.
