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The marriage ended a bit ago, anyone still under the impression that it's alive is hopeful, yet retarded
You can become a husband if you want, but you will have nothing to base your love on if this is the shondo you want to marry, since she is contrary to wifehoodness currently
She said it herself, she won't do anything that everyone (or a good amount of people) will be opposed to. So just get other husbands to agree.
Personally? Don't even try to reason with left-leaning husbands, the left is wholly evil and Jewish. Anyone who is dedicated to the marriage (and not to simply shondo herself) would be a good scouting option regardless, including ex husbands who gave up on the marriage (like abcs)