>>103562619There is nothing unhealthy about parasocial relationships, they can inspire people to keep on living, better their lives and so much more
Idols and vtubers want you to support them fanatically. That’s literally the point. This isn't some accidental one-sided obsession. It’s a mutual arrangement. She gives you joy, motivation, comfort—you give her your attention, your wallet, your belief in her. That’s a bond, Maybe not physical, but it’s real.
But if she'a putting up seiso mask, singing about dreams and love for her fans, then yeah—people expect her to actually live that role. It’s not just about being pretty and friendly it’s about being dedicated. That includes sacrificing stuff like dating for a while. That’s the trade-off. If you’re a chuuba with gachikoi fans, you don’t get to have it both ways. You built your career on their love and devotion—act like it matters. Being in a relationship breaks the illusion and shatters the trust.
