>>106018946I lost a close female friend that I also worked with was pretty but I genuinely had no desire to be with. She got a boyfriend that was pretty chill from Europe and I even went out of my way to swap a few of my shifts and do close opens so they could spend more time together while he was stateside.
Then one day we were having dinner and I vented my frustrations with my best friend to her, probably didn't spend more than 15 mins talking about it.
Then she hadn't called for a few days we usually chatted over the phone every other day and was kinda off around me at work and very cold while being normal with everyone else.
I asked her whats up and said we could talk at work, ended up waiting and then I texted her saying I'm about to get on games so if we're gonna talk then it's now.
She thought I caught feelings for her and I was like I could kind of see why if you listen to gossiping hens at work but she's 23 and still relies on her parents for support when I was independent at 17, I told her I see her as a wonderful friend I care about a lot but I could never see myself starting a family with someone that's going from family money to husband money and want someone that has interests besides social media.
She said nothing I could say would convince her otherwise and was pretty annoyed by what I said.
Then I crashed out and said she is an ungrateful person that can't see the difference between how I interact with her and basically treat her the same as my brother (not blood related) vs the woman I did actually want.
She did not take that well.
I also had several hambeast (king fatlord myself) that "fell" for me and when rejected went fucking nuclear, one of whom I was friends with for 10 fucking years.
TL;DR don't be friends with women
