>>106768834Stop gooning/cooming, for physiological purposes
Work out (don't skip cardio, you get a bit of natty dick gains, does wonders for the confidence)
Practice small talk when you can, try to ride the weird anxiety into a feeling of excitement so you look forward to it
Most importantly: Focus on becoming impressive in your day to day life rather than worry about being weird. You can be a badass AND have odd hobbies
The yearning is tough, but it can be a fire under your ass if you obsess yourself with becoming the kind of man women want to dote on. You can't do shit about the existence of these chicks other than being strong, so get as strong as you can, anon.