>>107053330Its as much principle as it is practicality
If your oshi showed exclusive, unambiguous favoritism for a fan who has posted irl photos and was ugly as sin, would that make you somehow not want her to not show favoritism? Of course not, that'd be ridiculous
Plus if becomes a situation of case by case rating it based on how much of a threat you percieve a guy is, you make it a thing where you're now rating guys based on what is essentially how attractive you think they are. Thats kinda gay. I cant say I'd be more comfortable doing that than just asking for a hardset principle. Also I'm not a woman I dont expect to be capable of nor do I really want to be somebody who can accurately judge how hot another man is. Just not a skillset I find myself wanting to have