>>107216723Yeah I had that realization years and years ago that technically all roads lead to disappointment if you get as blindly dogmatic and obsessed with all this as Cover hopes we will.
But basically you can't be hurt if you never cared your heart out for them to eventually break in the first place. Never go full retard putting all your eggs in an oshi basket. Don't give much (or any at all honestly besides membership) if you think you would regret that later in X years. If it was never a lot of money it doesn't matter and is water under the bridge, but if it was a lot in SCs relative to your income you will instinctively blame her and Cover in general for it and get resented.
This is also why it is so common for exholo fans to become kind of estranged at minimum, or sometimes turn into antis if they decide that their oshi was automatically in the right and will blindly follow her every step after, that she didn't deserve to get booted or she wouldn't have felt the urge to voluntarily leave if Cover didn't fuck up something.
My tl;dr evolved judgment is to both not take enjoying a chuuba for granted but also don't lose yourself in the moment over it either. Just like how you never even contemplate some day no longer talking to someone who is a good friend today, these are real people and their lives shift around making them need to move or otherwise drift out of your own life. Nothing is static for forever.
