>>10787018One is portrayed semi-realistically to make you feel upset for the horrible act that it is. Its taken seriously without any comedic undertones and the victim hates it completely.
The other is focused on making you coom. Its usually either comedic, or presents a situation that is exaggeratedly unrealistic (ex. I have a picture of you kissing your bf, this will surely get you expelled so become my meat slave forever). Also, the girls enjoy it eventually and moan right away.