>>107845544Valid crash out. Pointed out the difficulties in navigating a modern relationship while ageing and wanting progression in salaries. Self aware enough to identify your own issues. But would just like to highlight a few points
if it is the system that made everyone treadmill their life for wages, why is it your fault? You didn't fuck up by being a pussy. Fear is a totally valid emotion when treading the unknown. But you key into listening about other's people relationship to learn more about what it is like being in a relationship, and now you've learned. Your analysis of relationship mirrors what I see, so that sounds about right. Except that you pointed to things I would like to highlight to you
>women date older guys because students are broke and a man in a dead end job is still an upgrade if he can rent a place and own a car>relationships require both parties to fully commit to the idea of staying together and building a life together, if one or both aren't putting in the effort it's going to failon that note, should an older man be "settling" for a broke student that is merely looking for an upgrade? I would say no. I would caution against that because if a women "settle", they regret and maybe even leave room for cheating in the future. Rather, focus on just finding, a decent person
I also don't think the modern society is just:
>people who focus on career and succeeded in life>people who focused on relationship and succeeded in lifewhat about people who focused on relationship but got caught in a bad relationship?
what about people who focused on an education or career, but is stuck being a librarian?
and amidst these groups, there are decent people
I'd say, focus on not being an asshole, and you're decent. And if you're decent, you're good. Jump at any opportunities you can find. People your mom and dad introduce. The local librarian. Dentist. Clerk in a dentist. Whatever works. Good luck to you anon
