>>107882102Not really.
The same mentalities spawn both outcomes really.
Shitty people taking advantage of the lonely can come from various perspectives, delusions of having a harem, making internet friends, internet relationships, the intent to get blackmail to get nudes, the desire and turn on with respect to stalking, etc.
All of these come back to the same overall fact - the person is manipulative and vile.
It's not like some transactional sort of relationship where you both get something out of it, it's very one-sided because one person knows they are taking advantage of another person.
While the other person was somewhat getting something out of it, they were deluded and tricked in to thinking that way, groomed by proxy in to feeling safe around only that person.
As she said, when others entered the picture, he apparently pulled out the claws. (I'm not sure, I've not read the doc yet, I just got back home)
>>107882190You didn't call out anything, you just said "n-no", then agreed immediately after.
Being good is overwhelmingly not rewarded compared to being an absolute dick to others to get ahead. Whether relationships, career or otherwise.
Defend your position.
Maybe you think I am someone else who you were responding to. To make things less confusing, both your quotes in the last post were me.