Just be honest about it and there will be no problem. A lot of unicorn friendly chuuba's friends in Hololive are homocolabbers and nobody ever has an issue with collabs with them, with them talking about those girls, with them showing up in their chat or anything of the sort. They would have a problem if their chuuba themselves homocollabbed. Obvious example would be MiComet. Nobody is forcing a standard on those who don't want it.
I tend to agree with
>>108522074 in general terms. It's extremely easy to get rid of that audience without any drama. But a lot of them don't want to get rid of that audience, for obvious reasons.
I don't randomly send money to my favorite artists, I'll buy their products when they come out if they look good enough. They don't get money for existing, they don't get praise for existing, I'm not dedicating time from my daily life to boost their egos, I'm sure as hell not buying worthless plastic with their image. They make less money out of me from a lifetime of being their fan than an idol oshi would make from someone like me in a month or two. Most chuubas shitting on parasocial types don't actually want an audience that will treat them like I treat any artist I admire for their art and have zero parasocial attachment to, they want an audience that will treat them like I treat my idols but with no standards attached.
They're not even particularly high standards, unless you think women are literally worthless without cock in their mouths. It's not the end of the world to not have a boyfriend for a few years, I believe in you, you're an independent human with self control, you're not a slave to cock who needs to get dicked to be happy, be more confident in your gender, woman!