>>108837474The emotional connection is a big appeal personally, but my biggest point is that feeling desirable is more important than sexual gratification itself, even to people who are sad they can't get casual sex instead of being said they can't get a relationship.
Which is why I've had my highest self-esteem after being asked out by gay guys, I felt bad because they asked me out basically 1:1 to a doujin scene, but I couldn't say yes because I'm not gay>If you like black girls just move to wherever the fuck they live and ask them out. It's one of those cases where if you're not black you may get your foot in the door just for being a curiosity.I don't view it as an absolute requirement, but I mentioned it because the one time I was genuinely considering paying, it put me off because "If I'm gonna have to pay, I might as well go for all my preferences". That being said, I'm already saving up to leave, mainly for other reasons, but even if it's lower down the list, getting a cute black gf is definitely one of them
>My issue is entirely the fact I'm a virgin and want a virgin wife, if I don't feel special I will just be miserable and would rather die aloneI feel ya, personally I wouldn't mind someone who's already done it if she didn't mind I've never done it (This is somehow more rare than it seems). I think most guys are ok with sluts if they're the "I'll show you the ropes, pretty boy" type, which you see in the most prominent lewdtubers
>It is what it is, all the best to you anon. It's nice to see other people emphasise the romantic side, makes me feel like less of an outcast among outcasts.Same, good luck on your endeavors anon. I have a few close friends, and I still don't feel comfortable opening up to half the shit I tell to other anons here lol
